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17 – 24 May 2015 Goshen, IN – South Bend, IN – Mishawaka, IN – Elkhart, IN

  This past Sunday,17 May, marked our 3rd week as RV-ers; 2 of which were spent in a “controlled environment” among other motor coach owners, most of whom were very seasoned. Now we’ve been launched and are on our own.  We’ve learned so very much but when you know nothing, any sniglet of knowledge is a milestone.
     My apologies for speaking disparagingly of Ohio’s and Indiana’s highways but the only positive thing I can attribute to them is that they’re excellent for the alignment and tire industry.  If they are tooth-rattling on our Michelins, I can’t imagine what brain trauma one would sustain if they are riding on cheap tires.
     Our first week out we attended what is called the “6 Day Maintenance Session” in Goshen, IN.  We couldn’t fathom what so many days would encompass and thought we could probably build one from the Michelins up in that period of time. That was the best thing we could’ve ever done and most especially since we were just beginning this new adventure.  There were vendors there representing any and everything anyone could possibly have on their coach and either for a fee or NO fee, they’d come aboard and check our the system that they support and for which they provide maintenance. Those 6 days proved to be so excellent for us, not only in the information provided but also regarding things needing attention that we didn’t even know were ‘accoutrements’ that necessitated an inspection.
     We’re spending some time in South Bend and surrounding areas learning that South Bend isn’t the metropolis that we thought it was but just a smallish mid-western town.  Who’d have thought  Mishawaka, IN, would be a semi-metropolis——big enough to rate an Apple Store??!!  Since being in this area for several days, we’ve become quite fond of Mishawaka!  Three of those days have found us in their Apple store—-broadening our horizons. 
     Both of us were eager to see Notre Dame’s campus and, by some fluke we arrived just at the end of their graduation ceremony.  We got a thrill out of the pride showing on the faces of parents and the expressions of relief, excitement, and anticipation on the countenance of the cap and gown clad young leaders of our future.  We saw many honor cords.  Entrance requirements for undergrad is stringent.  Last year there were 18,000 applicants and only 2,000 enrolled for their freshman year.  54% of those ranked in the top 2% of their high school graduating class and 98% ranked in the top 10%.  
      The campus is magnificently beautiful and perfectly manicured with a Duke’s mixture of architecture ranging from historically old to nondescript tasteless modern.  There were countless people at the Grotto and the lighted candles cast such a warm and hopeful glow.  Photos don’t portray the real beauty of the gold dome nor the interior of the basilica.
     High on Bill’s Bucket List was to go to the Studebaker Museum in South Bend.  He painstakingly covered all 3 floors and can’t cease his raves about it.
     We spent this past weekend at beautiful Potato Creek State Park, IN.  This was our first camping experience in a real campground.  There  were parents with their young children camping in tents, pop-ups, 5th wheels, and motor coaches. We enjoyed sitting outdoors watching kids running around, riding bikes, playing ball, and just being children doing what kids did 40-50 years ago.       The sounds of their laughter and watching as they reveled in an unused spring day was such a refreshment and a soothing break from all of us being so immersed in our techy age.  Each campsite had a fire ring and everyone around us was using theirs from the time they arose until bedtime—so we didn’t need to be hunters and gatherers to suck in the wonderful aroma of wood smoke.
     This weekend was reminiscent for us when our families were young.  The sights, sounds, and the bouquet of pine needles, meals cooked over charcoal, and laughter around camp fires brought back memories of when we pitched tents with our little children and later graduated to pop-up campers.  Now that our years have increased and we have past experiences with vivid recall of air mattresses springing a leak in the middle of the night landing the sleeper upon the cold ground sprinkled with rocks; an unpredicted wind and rain storm causing the tent to cave in baptizing us with cold rain water and waking crying and frightened children; wild horses snooping around the slumbering campsite, sniffing the posies “arranged” in a jelly jar and adorning the picnic table, tipping over the ‘vase’ so the next morning there was a puddle of ice with the flowers frozen in it; and if you’ve ever camped, you can recite your own similar tales.  Bill once heard me mumble (I had no idea he was within earshot) during one of those “tent experiences”, that “camping sucks!” Our motor coach has indeed elevated our experience of “camping” to a whole new level!  Love it and inhaling others’ campfires without having to build our own, intensifies the joie de vivre and relaxation of it.
     The park is expansive and immersed us in nature with breath-taking spring wildflower displays, wildlife including songbirds, raccoons, foxes, coyotes and turkeys.  We spotted a beaver sitting in the middle of the road having his dinner and I spied my first ever Baltimore Oriole whose color was  dazzling.  The park boasts hardwood forests, wetland marshes, and beaver ponds.  This was a restful break from city life and endless traffic.
     There are approximately 11 miles of hiking trails; 2 bicycle trails—1 of them being solely for mountain bikes.  Cross-country skiing trails are available but thankfully there was none of that white stuff this time of year.  The park’s lake is stocked with bluegill, bass, etc. for fishing enthusiasts. There are horse trails for those who are horsey.  The park employs a full-time naturalist for interpretive programs enjoyed by the summer campers.
     Sunday was coming to close and folks were gathering kids, bikes, skate boards, and all their trappings to return home and prepare to resume another work and school week.  And it’s time for us to leave nature’s solitude and go back to the din of the city.  
     When we departed Potato Creek Sunday, we went to Mishawaka, IN, to the Cummins Diesel Service Center to be ready for them at 7 AM on Monday morning.  Service was great and now our engine has a clean bill of health.  We left there Monday afternoon and drove to Elkhart, IN, to have our washer either repaired or replaced on Tuesday.  While we await the diagnosis, we went to Mishawaka’s Apple Store for an iCloud workshop.  We’ve never been able to get an “understandable” explanation from anyone on what that nebulous Cloud actually is so hopefully this evening we’ll know the washer’s life expectancy AND be able to explain THE CLOUD to inquiring minds.
     Again, we’re loving the RV life, the things we’re seeing and the people we’re meeting.
Till next time….
Bill and Laura Bender
Elkhart, IN

Pensacola – St. Petersburg 20 December 2014 – 21 February 2015

Better Nate Than Lever!

It’s very challenging to blog when we’re giving 1000% of ourselves and time to actually living it. There’s very little time or energy to recount it other than our quick Facebook posts. I’d much rather be outside playing than inside blogging.  Since we haven’t blogged in 4 months, I’ll try to not recapitulate.  That would be pedantic and quoting history so how ’bout just a skim over?

        Thanksgiving, my birthday, and Christmas were spent with children, grandchildren, and friends, making them special occasions for us. 


     We spent 10 weeks in Pensacola having our fly bridge total enclosure totally redone–strata-glass and all.  If you’re in that area and need canvas work, call Tony at Pensacola Canvas, who sets the gold standard for attention to detail and perfection.  My husband is  a difficult task-master when it comes to detail. I overheard Tony begging Bill’s pardon for being anal. Bill replied that that was indeed a compliment so they are two birds of a feather and were a perfect team. Tony has so much imagination, creativity, and was very collaborative. We are tickled pink! He even fabricated a storage area for our bikes so they no longer press against the canvas.
Tony’s Finished Artistry

     January 25th, a glorious day for cruising, was our Pensacola departure date. “Parting is such sweet sorrow.”  Farewell to Pensacola, son and family, and friends, fave haunts.  We hated to leave but we really must go.  Feeling and hearing water moving beneath our keels was sweet music to our souls.

     On our way south, we had the opportunity to have dinner with my college suite-mate and school teaching roomie, Joann, and her husband, Ron, in Shalimar/Fort Walton Beach/Destin—-our old stomping grounds.  

    

Our evening anchorage in Ingram Creek, FL. with no light pollution and the stars are magnificent!!!

    
     Isn’t this a placid scene! This is what our eyes beheld the morning of 27 January as we awakened, anchored in Parker Bayou, about 3 miles east of Panama City. This vision of the early morning mist hovering just above the water’s surface makes me want to heave a big sigh, kick back and inhale this new day’s freshness.


     Tonight we’ll anchor in the “suburbs” of Apalachiacola. I’m “all puckered up”, as the Southerners say”, for some big ol’ succulent oysters tomorrow.
Apalachiacola Oystermen
      Apalachiacola is a quaint and charming little village, crying out, “old Florida” and punctuated with beautifully well-maintained vintage homes. We drove a golf cart, marina courtesy, around the area to get the lay of the land, then took off on foot. Neither of us had been there before. We passed it by as we cruised north in the spring because the month didn’t have an “R” in it and not an Old Wives’ Tale either as I did a bit of research. My delicacy craving was quite satisfied at Boss’s Oyster House.

    
     Our crossing going north from Clearwater to Carabelle was long and boring but not awful–just not fun. Going south we left from Appalachiacola because Carabelle was such a poverty-stricken and depressed area to which we hoped never to return.  The trade-off  made our Gulf crossing a 24 hour trip almost exactly to the minute from our departure to our arrival in Dunedin. That trip kicked our fannies and we were totally fried!  Soon’s our lines were secured we went right to sleep, didn’t resurrect for almost 2 days and felt like zombies when we did. Sailing friends make overnight crossings often and think nothing of it. That was only our 2nd and hopefully our last although that’s the only way to get to Pensacola and the Panhandle by boat.

     In St. Petersburg, we were in the hub of activity.  We had a fabulous docent, Janice Embrey Brown, with 22 years experience in this museum/gallery.  She works only on Thursdays at 5 PM (incase you go there). She knows Dali (pronounced Daaa’-Lee) inside and out; wears a medium height shoe (heel) upside down on her head, covering her bun and has 6—all different colors. The shoe has the Dali “eye” on the back of it.  She pointed out aspects of his art that were amazing (and how I hate that word) and to the untrained eye, would never had seen had she not called our attention to them with her pointer.


This was in the Vinoy Hotel Parking Lot


     Chihuly has a magnificent gallery there and our docent was very knowledgeable. Of course our photos didn’t begin to do justice to his pieces. The Museum of Fine Art is just across the street and there are museums and galleries galore.  The Pinellas Trail has an access point right down town for cycling, running, walking, or skating.  Saturday mornings there are crafts, food vendors, fresh veggies—an all day event.  We went to a couple of concerts at The Palladium and on Sunday afternoons, one of the downtown churches offers spectacular performances.  The Duke Energy Center for the Arts, just a stone’s throw away, has performances/events almost nightly.  

     We LOVED St. Pete.  Probably my favorite thing was having a place to really swim. 

 The city has a gorgeous facility with a 50 meter and a 25 yard pool.  Tampa Bay laps at the seawall just beyond the pool deck. It’s been so long since I’ve had access to an outdoor pool with lane lines and a black line with T’s at each end.  I was in heaven.

   
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     Sadly, we left St. Pete noonish 21 February, despite digging in my heels, kicking, screaming and hanging onto the piling as we left our slip. We’ve lived aboard 6+years and are never any place too long but 18 days in SP was far too short. Of all the places we’ve been, this was probably the most difficult one to leave. Love the North Shore Pool, Pinellas Trail, galleries, museums, marvelous restaurants, etc.—and Publix so close and convenient. — at St Petersburg Municipal Marina.

Hopefully will continuing to catch up till I’m caught up!


Bill and Laura Bender



4 November – 20 December 2014 Columbus, MS – Mobile, AL – Pensacola, FL – Mount Pleasant, SC- Pensacola, FL

      Another long hiatus making me once more ponder the debate I persist in having with myself.  Since retirement, are days shorter or am I slower?  Seems I never getting anything completed which could be the result of po…

22 October – 3 November 2014 Florence, AL – Columbus, MS

     Our week spent in Florence, AL, was a pleasure.  Eva, owner/dock master of Florence Harbor Marina, got our week of to a terrific start with her lively and animated personality. 

    The city of Flore…

20-22 October 2014 Goose Creek Marina, Scottsboro, AL – Florence Harbor Marina, AL

The weather has been spectacular as we continue our southwest cruise to warmer climes.

These rock bluffs/cliffs are so dazzling to us flat-landers.

Almost feel I should apologize for so much of the same…

 but we’re ge…

18-20 October 2014 Chattanooga – Goose Creek Marina

        We left Chattanooga after visiting for a week although we planned to spend only a few days.  Look forward to returning there to see and do more in that fascinating city. 


     

      As we leisurely cruise west on our way south, we continue to relish the craggy, yet verdant,  rises on the horizon profiled against  a cobalt sky.

          Saturday, we arrived in Scottsboro, AL, at Goose Pond Marina.  Tomorrow, Monday, we’ll continue our migration.  Today we hiked 5 ½ miles on trails in Goose Pond Plantation along the shore line, past the immaculate golf course, and through the campground.  We often hear friends rave about their visits to this area we we had to investigate it for ourselves.  We’ve loved this stop for its hushed solitude and natural vistas.

      Today on our hike we enjoyed these little PVC pipe people decked out for this beautiful fall season.

     These darling fall figures have no top to their heads.  Maybe that’s how thoughts escape.

      We thought thought they needed something to keep their thoughts intact so we loaned them our lids that keep us our thoughts and ideas under cover.

      This evening we’d like to share our “back yard” with you.  

          Tomorrow, Monday the 20th, we’ll continue to Florence, AL, intending to arrive Thursday, the 23rd, and spend several days exploring that area.


Happy Fall!
Bill and Laura
Aboard Kindred Spirit III
Goose Pond Marina
Scottsboro, AL

8 – 17 October 2014 Chattanooga, TN

Ahhhh…. the water.

There’s just something about the water…!   

     The water rushing beneath our hull performs it’s own hypnotizing melody that catapults me into a trance-inducing state of contentme…

27 July – 10 October 2014 Guntersville Marina, AL, and a 3 week road trip to here and there.

Guntersville, AL,

and places beyond!

     Bill’s always had an affinity for working out but when he saw the For Sale sign, I guess it was one of his never-happened-before impulses!  Just kidding.  Neither of us wa…

July 10 – 27 – 2014 ~Columbus, MS – Bay Springs Lake, MS – Grand Harbor Marina, TN – Joe Wheeler State Park, AL – Guntersville Marina, AL


      Before we continue east, I want to tell you what I neglected to say about our visit to Columbus, MS, which was actually a highpoint for me.  We visited the Pulitzer Prize winning playwright, Tennessee William’s, first home that is 135 years old.  Did you know that he is said to have been the most important American playwright ever?  Since my freshman year in college, I’ve been a fan of his works. I was a drama major and my first year in college, our drama department performed The Glass Menagerie.  Not a very good photo but this gingerbread Victorian house was his first home and the exterior hues are authentic paint colors used at that time.  He has produced some marvelous works and I was ecstatic at the opportunity of feeling more “connected” with him.
    Long long ago, when we were all just a glimmer in our daddy’s eye, the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers was launched as part of the Continental Army.  In 1802, Congress established West Point, NY, as our country’s first school of engineering.  West Point was run by the Corps of Engineers and was our only source of engineers for military and civil purposes.

     I had no idea the scope of the Corps until touring a visitors center along the waterway and this I learned.  The Army engineers blazed migratory trails for those westward bound.  They cleared waterways and harbors for commerce.  Now Congress has authorized them to work in the fields of flood control, hydropower production, shore protection and restoration, water supply, disaster assistance, fish and wildlife management and recreation.

     
     The 234 mile Tennessee-Tombigbee Waterway the largest building project in the history of the US Army Corps of Engineers and is a system that forms a chain of 10 lakes, 10 locks and a series of dams from Demopolis, AL, our starting point in the south, to the Tennessee River, in the north, where it twists and winds through beautiful countryside steeped in early American history.   It’s length is more than 5 times longer than the Panama Canal.  Although “talk” about building this waterway began in the late 1700’s and continued through 22 presidencies, it wasn’t completed till the end of 1984, with a total number of man-hours of labor being greater than 25 million.


     An average 8 barge tow can move as much freight as 120 rail cars, 480 tractor-trailer trucks and can move a ton of freight twice as far as a train and 6 times as far as a tractor-trailer truck on the same amount of fuel.


     Bay Springs Lake, one of the 10, has many anchorages and coves from which to choose.  We anchored near the visitor center so we could take a short ride there in the dink to learn more about the waterway and its construction.




Bay Springs Visitor Center, MS


     The Tenn-Tom was many slow miles of absolutely nothing but water and trees and minimal to no phone or internet service. Anchoring out, swimming, kayaking, exploring by dink—-all of that was fun but it doesn’t take long to yearn for civilization.  We merged with Pickwick Lake and the Tennessee River, docking at beautiful Grand Harbor Marina. 







Grand Harbor Marina
Counce, TN



     It is dandy to be in civilization again!  Last night’s view up river was so calming—–






and this morning is another reason to be thankful for still being healthy and on this side of the green grass.





    
     This is our anchorage at Buck Island, TN River, SM 249, near Active Captain’s designated Little Bear Anchorage.  We cruised up there a bit and it looked like there might be more than little bears present so we anchored in the open with nice swimming and a cooling breeze. Quiet and wonderfully peaceful. 🏊




     I graduated from college in Alabama and I had no idea that the northern part of the state was so magnificent with stone cliffs punctuated with grand and verdant rolling hills.





     So many cruising friends have told us about Joe Wheeler State Park so we made plans to spend some time there.  WOW!!!  We had NO idea that Alabama (or any state for that matter) had state supported parks of this richness and rustic splendor.  There is a lovely campground, pavilions with huge fire places, beach, tennis and basket ball courts, hiking trails, marina, an an impressive and  bucolic lodge with 74 guest rooms, sitting areas, transient slips, and an excellent restaurant. 

        Joe Wheeler State Park lodge, restaurant, and transient slips

One of 3 huge chandeliers in the restaurant





      I saw several huge “walk-in” size stone fireplaces.  The transient slips are right in front of the lodge, restaurant, and a pool actually large enough for a swim workout. 




     Bill said, “Let’s take a little stroll to look around.”  You’d think after all these years I’d have learned that “a little stroll” is at a fast pace and akin to a race walking marathon.  But I took his proposal at face value as I stepped out the door wearing my Chaco flippity flops.  I was inappropriately attired from the ankle down. This photo really doesn’t capture the sharp gasping inhalations caused by this area of the trail that went straight UP without trees, sticks or twigs to hang on to.  Wish I’d taken the picture from the bottom but after making it to the top, there was no way I’d retrace my steps for a photo.



     About half way to the top, I saw a piece of a limb that looked somewhat like a weird animal so under the guise of pausing to admire and photograph, I was really sucking in the atmosphere.



Justification for a rest during one of the famous
Bill Bender Walking Tours


     Currently, we’re in covered slip in Guntersville, AL, where we’ll stay for a month with a long list of “intentions” for getting bright work done, deep cleaning of lockers and hatches, and hopefully, some draperies completed.  Friends from SC, Bob and Jenny, keep their boat here are up for the weekend so we’re enjoying spending time with them and getting a tour of the area which always includes sampling restaurants.  


     Lunch was at cute, unique, and eclectic Cafe 336, one of Bob and Jenny’s favorites.  The food is outstanding.  Everything is fresh, original, and yummy.  We look forward to returning for lunch before our time here is up.


     Lake Guntersville State Park had a Shrimp Fest so the 4 of us went up there yesterday.  The road is as steep and curvy as NC’s mountain roads which really was surprising. This is Alabama, for heaven’s sake!  From the water’s edge, we could see the lodge at the top of the mountain.

It looked interesting from the beach so we drove up there to have a closer look.

Guntersville Lake from the lodge’s observation deck.



     Following our “romp” around the lodge on the mountain top, we had worked up an appetite so it surely must be time to eat—again.  We went to another of their top picks which happens to be #1 on Trip Advisor, out of their 50 restaurants.  We were able to get a table outside–the evening was balmy and their tiny white lights, plants, landscaping accents, and subtle wind chimes added to the pleasure.  The food quality and atmosphere could be a rival for fine dining restaurants in major cities and this is just a tiny Alabama town on the lake.  They were extremely busy but that didn’t slow food preparation nor service.  Bo, the owner, came to our table quite a few times to make sure that all was well…and it was!



The Rock House Eatery
Guntersville, AL



     We’ve had a great time with Jenny and Bob this weekend.  It isn’t often that we have the opportunity to spend time with them–it’s been well over a year–but we pick right up where we left off!  Bob’s still working so really dread when it’s time to hug them goodbye.
   

     We’ll leave here the end of August so no more blogging till then unless something truly momentous occurs.  I do want to close with something a dear childhood friend shared with me recently from A New Zealand Prayer Book.  It rings so true because it seems everyone (I include myself) is so very busy and the major complaint is that none of us seems to get everything done that we’d hoped to accomplish “today”.  This really spoke to me so I’d like to share it with you.


It is night after a long day. What has been done has been done; what has not been done has not been done; let it be.”


     As each day is done and we reflect upon those waking hours, it feels appropriate to express gratitude to our heavenly Father for our health and the abilities that He has prescribed for us, allowing us the moment or opportunity to take pleasure in accomplishing our to-do list, despite the possibility that it lacked completion. It’s really tough to give credence to the fact that we are decelerating as we grow more sage and venerable, but when I look around me and sadly see those my age and younger who have obvious limitations in their functionality, I feel as if I should fall to my knees in reverence and thank my God who made me and bestowed upon me excellent health. Despite my 73 years when body parts begin to grow weary of functioning and wear out, I feel even younger than my children’s ages and am so filled with gratitude that, regardless of whether I checked everything off my to-do list today, I delight in what I did achieve and that I was able to do those things totally fit, adept, and pain-free. This is one of our Father’s gifts to us so give thanks and remember that “what has been done has been done and what has not been soon has not been done; let it be.”


Bill and Laura Bender
Kindred Spirit III
Guntersville, AL









June 28-July 10, 2014 Pensacola, FL – Fairhope, AL – Daphne, AL – Columbus, MS

          Just a little post script to the Pensacola story; the conclusion to my most recent update.  This is the humble little home my parents had built and moved into two weeks before I was born in 1940; where my brother, Bob, and I grew up; and where my parents lived until 2006 when they moved to an assisted living facility. I’ve always loved those beautiful trees.  No one lived behind us because the two spinsters who lived on the corner had a tennis court built back there.  That’s where Bob and I learned to roller skate.

             Across the street from our house is  a park…which isn’t a park.  

     No swings or slides or park benches but ancient mammoth sprawling oaks that were great for climbing way back then… 

and they still are.  I couldn’t resist!

     Our oldest son, Chad, brought our 13 year old grandson, Zack, to cruise from Pensacola to Fairhope as a “trial” to see if he’d like to continue with us for a week as we mosey north into Alabama, Mississippi, and Tennessee.

     As we were leaving Pensacola Harbor, we saw Chad driving away.  On Find My Friends, we saw him already back home in Daphne and we weren’t quite to Ft. Pickens yet.  45 minutes for him; 7-8 hours for us.


     When we arrived at the Fairhope Yacht Club, Chad was there to take our lines.  I think Zack was most happy to have his feet back on terra firma.


     Our fly bridge view from our slip in the Fairhope Yacht Club of the new clubhouse and their yacht basin.


      Sammy’s closely watching to make sure Bill has enough hot air to extinguish 68 candles.  His birthday occurred the weekend that we were fortunate enough  to be able to spend with Chad, Ginger, and their children in their huge Daphne home.  We’re so accustomed to living in +/- 300 square feet and even though we’ve been in their home before, when we stepped into the entry, we both audibly exclaimed at the shear enormity of their house.  Their foyer is larger than our total floor space. Chad and Ginger prepared a wonderful Cajun Shrimp Creole birthday dinner for everyone and Publix did a fine job on a carrot cake, Bill’s favorite.
     We rode our bikes from the Yacht Club, along the bay, and to Point Clear where the charming and alluring historic Grand Hotel has stood since the 1840’s. Overlooking Mobile Bay, it was a prime vacation spot for wealthy Victorian-Era families.  Through fires, floods and hurricanes, the Grand Hotel has survived.  The main part of the hotel with the dining rooms and bars are in the area photographed below.

     And here we have Bill, my first born, Chad, me, but no Ginger.  Fun lunch in the shade of a spreading oak tree in the courtyard of Fairhope’s Panini Pete’s at the Fairhope French Quarter. Ginger had just left when we remembered that we can never remember to take photos of all of us. I hi-jacked a young boy to be our photog—he worked for free! 😎.


     I found her!!!  Ginger has more energy than any ten people collectively, that I’ve ever seen.  She’s hard to catch but here she is.  Look quick because, like a vapor, she’ll be gone again before you can blink.


     We love our lifestyle and our lives and here are a couple reasons why that are very recent experiences.  The afternoon we arrived in Fairhope, we left and were away from the boat for a while. When we arrived home, we found someone’s boat card (like a business card but contains boat info) wedged in the door.  I emailed the couple thanking them for dropping by, told them expected length of our stay there; and briefly what our cruising intentions are after leaving Fairhope.  The next morning a couple bearing a huge canvas bag of books and charts, knocked.  They introduced themselves as Bob and Vicki and have made this river trip 42 times so they are familiar with even twist and turn.  I took notes as fast as I could write while we listened to them and Bill was following in the charts.  They gave us a copy of their favorite stops along the way and warnings of where NOT to stop.  Each day they’ve checked on us to ask where we are and what will be our destination for that day.  Vicki even offered to take me blueberry picking!  Cruisers are just the most phenomenal, generous, gracious, and caring people!
     Later that morning, we noticed a man walking our way down the dock and looking at our boat.  Bill opened the door to speak and long story short, his name is also Bill. We invited him in and he told us that he has a sailboat but has just begun to consider a trawler.  We jumped up and down and clapped our hands with glee.  He wants us to talk to him about our favorite subject!!!  How much better can it get???  How lucky can we be!!??  We filled his ears with probably far more information than he thought his noggin could absorb.  We just couldn’t quit regurgitating boat stuff.  

     He was a delight to meet and an exciting conversationalist.  By the time we parted, we felt as if we’d known him for years as an old friend and not just a new acquaintance. 
    

     Bill invited us for cocktails and dinner at The Grand Hotel, Point Clear, that evening and what a memorable joy that was for us.  We hated for the evening to end because he was such a stimulating and intriguing man with whom we could delight in a relaxed and casual conversation and so importantly (to us) someone who understands the meaning of engaging in dialogue.  The sun was setting over Mobile Bay and this was our view as we dined with our new friend, Bill.


     We anticipate seeing him on our return trip and spending an appreciable amount of time with him.  When we said our goodbyes, he entrusted us with this from Mark Twain. “Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one’s lifetime.”  Does that not transport ponderous meaning!

     Zack decided he’d rather stay home, work for his dad and make some mad money (since his iPhone took a fatal plunge into the murk off our dock) so we sadly took our leave, although were thankful for the time we had with our children.  This is a very rare opportunity so I savored it every second.

     As a child, our family drove to Mobile often to shop for clothes and shoes but this was the first time to travel over the Bankhead Tunnel although I think it bears another name today. To see Mobile from the river and explore (with my eyes) the Port of Mobile, was really special for me.


     Our first anchorage after leaving Fairhope was Old Lock #1.  Very peaceful and quiet.  We saw a few tugs and barges but no other boats all day long.
     Day was just about done by the time our anchor was set so we chilled and enjoyed the end of a wonderful day and reminisced about the pleasure of visiting, unhurried, with our children.
     The next morning, this sight welcomed us.  If this isn’t a promise from our heavenly Father for a magnificent day stretched out before us, I don’t know what is!
     
     On Day 5 after leaving Fairhope, we arrived at Kingfisher Bay Yacht Basin, Demopolis, AL, a new and beautiful facility.  Brand new pool, new laundry facilities, beautiful showers, a raised covered deck with lounge chairs, grills, a wet bar and whatever a cruiser might need to enjoy their stay.   A courtesy car and a golf cart were at our disposal to get from one area of the expansive marina to another or to go into the sleepy little southern town that progress has forgotten.  Upon our arrival, other cruisers came to welcome us and take our lines.  The people we meet make this life so much fun.  Fellow cruisers are never strangers.
     We’ve been through just a few locks but after going through 100 in Canada and NY, this is nothing!  Notice on the left, the enormous amounts of water spilling over the dam.
    
                    We’re entering the lock preparing for our ride up.

     We are in Day 8 and mile 266 since beginning our river cruise and other than the tugs and a few bass boats, there has been NO boat traffic.  It’s doubtful that we’ve seen more than a dozen shanties along these river banks, yet in some areas of CA, people are practically living on top of each other.  They could move here and have inexpensive water front property.
     I was fascinated by these birds that were diving and swooping and becoming an ornament on every bollard.  It was difficult for me to fend off the lock wall and take pictures at the same time.  Was so afraid my phone would end up in the drink like poor Zack’s.  


     These aren’t the White Cliffs of Dover but are on the west side of the Tombigbee River just east of Livingston, AL

      This afternoon we tucked into Columbus Marina, Mississippi, and are relishing being plugged in with the air conditioning to banish memories of the last several hot and humid days.  It’s nap time just as soon as I place my final period.


     I am finally caught up with our blog and what a relief.  No more “to-be-continued’s” because we’re actually where we say we are!!!


Bill and Laura Bender
Kindred Spirit III
Columbus, Mississippi
10 July 2014